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An Ornamental Experience

By SUE G. COLLINS

An annual ornament exchange among friends and creatives brings magic to Salamander Middleburg.


two women celebrating event

Over a decade ago, two dear friends,

photographer Abby Jiu and event designer Lauryn.
Prattes, dreamed of a grand plan to celebrate the holidays with a flourish, inviting other powerhouse creatives and colleagues in the wedding industry to join them for a festive afternoon of camaraderie and an ornament exchange to mark the season.

It's now become an annual event at Salamander Middleburg, infused with their unique blend of glamour, imagination and polish, where guests are invited to come with a tree ornament that speaks to them, exchanging it for another that calls their name. The ornaments are left under a beautifully decorated tree and guests mingle, basking in the spirit of the day.

This past year, Salamander Middleburg again set the stage for enchantment on December 5. "I would say most of the ornaments were more playful and whimsical," says Prattes. "Last year I gave a beautiful bird ornament from Anthropologie. I personally collect bird ornaments, so I thought it would be nice to give one to someone else. The ornament I received was a little cake on a cake stand. Charming!"

Event designer Lauryn Prattes (left) and photographer Abby Jiu (right)

at Salamander Middleburg’s Ornament Exchange

The Ornament Exchange is no ordinary holiday event. Past gatherings have featured Christmas carolers greeting guests, "a rush of snow as guests walked into our Après Ski event, and even an outdoor holiday pajama party in 2020 to ensure safety during the pandemic," says Prattes, whose professional hallmarks are flawless service, and meticulous attention to detail to create an ambiance of effortless luxury for the events she designs. "This year, we were thrilled to present a 16-piece orchestra led by Jordan Khan from Dallas with many more fun surprises."

ornaments on tree

Ornaments Over the Years

Initially hosted in Jiu's living room for 20 local wedding industry professionals, the Ornament Exchange has blossomed into a prominent national event in the wedding industry. Jiu is a fine art wedding photographer, her art strongly influenced by high fashion, interior design, and international travel. She's had the honor of photographing weddings throughout the U.S., Mexico, and Europe since she launched her company in 2009.

Jiu and Prattes deep-rooted friendship and professional synergy have propelled the event's success. Each year, the event not only embraces the festive spirit, but also complements the fairytale setting at Salamander Middleburg. Nestled within the heart of Virginia's horse and wine country outside Washington, DC, the gracious hospitality and historic charm of the resort sprawls across 340 breathtaking acres, a fitting backdrop for the annual exchange. 

snowflake ornament on tree

Ornaments Over the Years

In 2024, the theme was inspired by the surge in surrealism within the fashion industry. "Within the wedding industry, fashion is really taking front stage," explains Prattes. "You are seeing more risks and expression through fashion and Abby and I both embrace this in our work."

Jiu has been named a top wedding photographer by Martha Stewart Weddings, and her couples' days have been featured in People, Brides, The Knot, Over the Moon, Washingtonian Weddings, and Inside Weddings.

butterfly ornament on tree

Ornaments Over the Years

One charity benefiting from the event is Playtime Project, which aims to cultivate resilience in children experiencing family housing insecurity by providing and expanding access to transformative play experiences. And, the friends also forged a partnership with VOW for Girls, a growing global movement that partners with brands, individuals and the wedding industry to end the international child marriage crisis.

sushi ornament on tree

Ornaments Over the Years

The Ornament Exchange has become a pinnacle for Jiu and Prattes, who personally greeted each and every guest. "Looking ahead, we aspire to further cultivate community spirit, celebrate the festive season in grand style, and support charitable endeavors," says Jiu.

Ornament of dog on tree

Ornaments Over the Years


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